Being nice or being me?

Our family is going to have a trip to my husband's hometown. Where most of the people there speak Hokkian. And not to be able to speak Hokkian is considered flaw. Some people are also nosy and annoying.
As a wife, I know I'm expected to be nice to his friends & relatives. As a person, I can't tolerate nosy and annoying people. I tend to speak what's on my mind & give them "a piece of mine".

So, it's kinda controversy to me. 1 side, I should be a better, nicer person.
Other side, I should just be me.
Lagian, memang ada orang2 tertentu yang perlu mendengar "apa adanya" without sugarcoat.
Dan ada orang tertentu yang super annoying, sarcasm is the only way to get rid of them.

Saya sering mendengar orang bilang kalo saya itu judes, blak-blakan, dll.
I know that those are not the best qualities of a person. Some people would suggest to change and be nicer.
However, those considered flaws by most people, are not flaws to me.
In my opinion, those are my strongpoints, HAHAHA. So, I'm not willing to change it.
Beside, these characteristics are like parts of me, what make me who I am. If I change it, then who will I be?
Better version of me but not real me, I think.


Final decision, considering my husband, I will try to be in my best behavior there. But if they start to supper annoy me, then,... you know. Hahahahahahhaha